My First Date Is On Saturday. How Often Should I Call Or Text Her Before Saturday?
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I have a date on Saturday which is 5 days from now. So i am wondering how often should i call her or text her so she doesn’t loose interests. Also what should i talk about, basic day to day kinda situations? Any advice/suggestion is appreciated. FYI, am a 24 yrs old male.
Yay for you! If you call keep it under 15 minutes (you want to have stuff to talk about on the date), and call at least once before the date. Text is great but keep it casual, "how’s your day" or getting to know her basic interests. Once again don’t go overboard with texts though. I love getting random and occasional texts from the guy I’m interested in, he’ll share something fun that happened to him or just ask how I am. But I know I start getting a little overwhelmed if he floods me with texts or expects answers right away (I have better things to do than text all the time). A day or two before your date reconfirm your plans with your date and let her know you are looking forward to spending time with her.
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15 Responses to “My First Date Is On Saturday. How Often Should I Call Or Text Her Before Saturday?”
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September 9th, 2009 at 2:02 pm
Holy ****. You’re having your first date at 24? How sad are you?
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September 9th, 2009 at 2:50 pm
Ok
start texting her
And if you see that she takes too long to answer dont text her again until saturday or unless she text you first
if she does sounds interesting then you text her
And call her for awhile
if she ignore you
treat her mean (lol im evil)
just make yourself interesting for her
good luck
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September 9th, 2009 at 3:35 pm
Don’t constantly text or call her.
You might scare her away.
Maybe here and there you can text or call, but not everyday until the date. Unless she asks you to. Give her some space.
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September 9th, 2009 at 4:07 pm
dont call too often, cause it puts u as a obssesvie dude. but call her uhm like once or twice and ask her how she is? whats up…OH
if u guys have something in common, u should be like, "hey my friend totally ditched me so do u wanna come instead?"
idk it works for some reason
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September 9th, 2009 at 4:33 pm
keep it simple, i know its 5 days and in the moment it can be unbearable…but its 5 days, not a whole lot can happen in the meantime.
Just try to relax, you can casually have a conversation with her through texts OR if you want to call go ahead.
I dont know though, when youre just getting to know someone, its kinda hard talking on the phone..that or slightly uncomfortable.
I always found i preferred talking on the phone after a couple dates…and im a girl lol.
so yeah, acknowledge that you remember her, but dont swarm her
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September 9th, 2009 at 4:52 pm
Well, if you really think about it, 5 days is not a long time. Just seems like it because you’re so excited for it.
Just call her regularly. Maybe every night, asking her how her day went, what happened, etc. And don’t just talk about that stuff.. just talk to her normally. You should be able to talk to the person you’re having a relationship with about almost anything.
If there are long silences in between your conversations, then that means something’s wrong, and you two haven’t taken the time to get to know each other that well :]
Good luck! I hope I helped.
–> Sorry if any of it didn’t make sense.. it’s 2:30am here.
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September 9th, 2009 at 5:00 pm
Hey Aj, women love a man that can talk to them has much as possible with always considering s-x. So if you feel to talk to her then that’s what you should do in other words be yourself and if she gets turned off or chased away then that’s no the one for you.Cause you want some one who you can be yourself with and not have do only what they want you to do.
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September 9th, 2009 at 5:33 pm
Call her every 20 minutes and text her constantly between phone calls.
Nah, seriously, if you don’t normally text her at all through the day, then don’t text her at all until the day before the date. On the day before the date, text her a short reminder of the place you are meeting up, and what time, and also take that opportunity to tell her that you’re really looking forward to tomorrrow’s date. That’s it.
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September 9th, 2009 at 5:38 pm
Little to none. Don’t try and be mysterious, but appearing over-eager can scare women. Try one text/call on thursday, maybe saying you found a great bar/restaurant or asking if she likes ice cream/bowling. Keep it simple, short, and not too personal/deep. Just enough to make sure she remembers. Also, listen more than you talk while on the date, and actually LISTEN actively. If you can remember details of things she mentions, she’ll take notice.
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September 9th, 2009 at 6:16 pm
I would just talk to her about ordinary, everyday things. Stuff you guys like to talk about in conversations. You don’t want to act strangely or talk about random weird subjects. This might lead her to think the wrong thing. Just be natural and call/text her as much as you normally do, don’t change anything drastically. hope this helped
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September 9th, 2009 at 6:38 pm
call on Tuesday and ask her how her day is going and ask her more about the things she likes to do. let her know u will text her on Friday to see how her week went…that way u wont annoy her and she will be excited for your date on Saturday. u may even let her know you are looking forward to your date. a sweet but small gift when you arrive to pick her up is always very appreciated as well. even a small bouquet of flowers are nice depending on how much you like her. and for the love of all that is good do not try and get in her pants on the first or second or third date….lets use some control please and respect for her.
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September 9th, 2009 at 6:54 pm
Text her on Wednesday.
Just the once. Add something like "see you then"
This will show that your keen without being to overboard. The trick is, shes got to be able to put effort in
In the beginning of a possible relationship, if a guy comes off too strong, then its like we dont have to put any effort in.
But having to work hard for a guy gives lots of rewards and make us feel like weve accomplished something : ) And girls love knowing that a guy can fall for them : )
So only text her once, on the wednesday. When you see her, compliment her about something. But only say compliements which you truly mean.
As for what to talk about, ask her things about what she likes to do and try and find something which you both like to do (say if you both like skiing or something). That will make her feel like you and her are similar, without you suggesting anything to upfront. Be yourself.
And look into her eyes . . . a girl admires good eyes.
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September 9th, 2009 at 7:34 pm
ok i think you call her every other day and text her maybe like onve a day. but a while in the day, cause u never know if she might text you or call u first:)
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September 9th, 2009 at 8:13 pm
Yay for you! If you call keep it under 15 minutes (you want to have stuff to talk about on the date), and call at least once before the date. Text is great but keep it casual, "how’s your day" or getting to know her basic interests. Once again don’t go overboard with texts though. I love getting random and occasional texts from the guy I’m interested in, he’ll share something fun that happened to him or just ask how I am. But I know I start getting a little overwhelmed if he floods me with texts or expects answers right away (I have better things to do than text all the time). A day or two before your date reconfirm your plans with your date and let her know you are looking forward to spending time with her.
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September 9th, 2009 at 8:19 pm
Call her e/o day and just say tell her that you just wanted to say "Hi.’ and see how she was doing. If she acts like she really wants to talk to you a lot, you can call every day, but don’t just take it for granted. See how she acts. You don’t want to seem desperate.
You can tel her that you were thinking about what she would like to do, or what kind of food she likes to eat, so that you can pick a restaurant, or what movies she would like to see so that you can pick a movie she would enjoy. You can tell her that you wanted to double check on the time arrangement for the date. Just make small talk. "I hope it doesn’t rain on that day." "Do you enjoy wine with your dinner, or do you prefer something else?"
If she acts like she is busy and wants to go, just tell her that you will see her Saturday at ____ time, and don’t call again until you pick her up.
Do not be late for a first date!!! If anyone is to be late, it should be her.
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